“Life is too precious to settle and shrink back and be less than what you envision.” -Wendy Nicole Anderson
Do you understand that you will never receive through smallness and shrinking yourself back the kind of life you dream of?
Regardless of whether things appear to not work, you can make them work and get what you want by being rooted in expansiveness. With an expansiveness perspective and energy, you would be attracting and open to seeing the opportunities that are presenting itself and unfolding in front of you. Learn to claim your space and be vast. Being aware of the ways that you may be shrinking yourself it’s a wonderful place to start.
Discover ways you’re shrinking yourself back and why it’s important to check in with yourself frequently
I’m sharing a list of 30 ways you may be inadvertently shrinking yourself back so you can gain more awareness and use the power you already have within to live the life you envision:
- Saying yes or no in ways you don’t want
- No taking a stand
- Not having boundaries
- Letting people cross your boundaries
- Living with guilt
- Not feeling worthy or deserving
- Disconnecting from reality
- Hiding out
- Playing small
- Keeping your gifts or talents to yourself
- Being afraid to be different
- Slouching body posture, taking up as little space as possible
- Sacrificing your happiness for others
- Thinking you’re not good enough
- Not making eye contact
- Trying to please everyone
- Fearing change
- Holding onto things
- Living in the past
- Not taking good care of yourself
- Putting yourself down
- Procrastinating or avoiding action
- Self-criticism
- Shallow breathing
- Low self-esteem
- Indecision
- Adopting a victim mentality
- Not actualizing
- A pessimistic attitude
- Not investing in yourself
Why is important to be aware of this
I’d like to begin by briefly mentioning four specific spiritual laws inherent to this topic and their implications:
The Law of Clarity
When you have clear intentions about your wants and needs, a world of opportunity opens up to you and you’ll start to attract the correct situations and people into your life. Indecisiveness sends a very confusing message to the Universe blocking what you require in your life.
The Law of Cause and Effect
Your energy and actions will return to you in some form. This means that if you believe that you’re not worthy, that thought will draw people and situations that will confirm that belief. On the other hand, if you feel worthy, you will start attracting people and situations that will support your stand.
The Law of Vibration
Everything is energy and you must align your energy frequency with what you want to attract. When you live your life doing things because you feel obligated you will emit a low frequency. If your vision for your life is to live a fuller life you would need to heighten your energy.
The Law of Flow
When things aren’t moving, they stagnate. As soon as we release beliefs that are no longer needed, we make space for the new and positive to enter.
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The beautiful component about creating spaciousness and being open to an expansiveness perspective is that energetically you will be emanating positive and magnetic power. This is one of the most powerful attitudes you can ever take. Start working with these principles to create true spaciousness and openness to your envisioned life.
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